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Re: Controversial opinions
And yes, from a completely literal standpoint, you have the freedom to have a kid. I retract my previous statement about that because I see now how creepy that was.
I do think that the way you put it made it sound like nobody cared about the consequences involved for the kid itself. Which is what worries me and scares me a bit about this conversation.
Re: Controversial opinions
Your entire last paragraph doesn't really apply to anything I said. Actually, nobody said "poor people shouldn't have kids" and nobody agreeing with OP ever brought up "crazy welfare moms". There's a difference between being poor, and if you are in a position where you can barely feed yourself, how are you going to feed a kid? I actually think social programs like welfare *help* with this and make it more possible to raise a kid and therefore less dire to have one when you're struggling financially. Individual situations vary.
I don't really know what else to say here...I guess there's just a big disconnect here in that we're kinda talking about related by slightly different things.