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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-14 07:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #2689 ]


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Re: Life advice question time

(Anonymous) 2014-05-15 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
That's a tough one, I'm sorry. :( But even so, not sure I'd rush into marriage just to overcome a visa issue. That's a lot of legal ramifications in the U.S. alone you'd have to deal with (finances, splitting your assets in case of a divorce) and if you got to the point where you'd naturally break up... well. Breaking up is complicated enough without having to dissolve a marriage, too. There's also the fact that you're early twenties and yes, that's pretty young to get married. A lot can happen over the next few years, particularly in the face of a huge change like living/working in another country.

I'd look real hard into ways that he could visit regularly, keep in touch via Skype, phone, e-mail and care packages, etc.
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Re: Life advice question time

[personal profile] vethica 2014-05-15 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, you're hitting a lot of points I've been worrying about. I would like to do this without getting married yet, if possible, so I'm going to try keeping looking for alternatives. Thanks man. I appreciate it.