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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-21 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #2696 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2696 ⌋

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Re: Nonfandom Secrets/Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-05-22 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
When I was younger, I made my grandmother promise if she died she would back as a ghost or an angel or something. I was dead serious. (I was deep as a kid.)

I don't know what scares me more - that she will or that she won't.
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Re: Nonfandom Secrets/Confessions

[personal profile] blunderbuss 2014-05-22 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
Aww, that's a sweet thing to say to your grandma. Though I do understand your dilemma - I'm kinda like that with my mum.

Re: Nonfandom Secrets/Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-05-22 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
The best advice I can give you is to breathe. She sounds like someone you were close to, and she's still your grandmother. The thing with any kind of interaction with a dead relative is that it's usually (in my experience) subjective to the enth degree. It'll affect your perception of what death is and means in significant ways that you really can't share with most people. On the upside, though, the connection doesn't break abruptly, the way it does with someone who dies and you never see again. It just changes. If you want to explore that, respond if she talks to you. If you can see a ghost and can cope with their being visible to you there, look at them. And if you're okay with not knowing if your grandmother can hear you, but want to keep her a part of your life, talk to her when you're alone.