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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-21 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #2696 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2696 ⌋

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Re: "I am not your label"

(Anonymous) 2014-05-22 04:19 pm (UTC)(link)
My mom thought I was a lesbian because I never had a boyfriend at that point. I'm just shy mom. Ok. Have you ever seen me with a woman either? No. Ok then.

I feel like I would get the genderqueer labled online if I ever talked about myself but I do very much identify as female I just get frustrated shopping because I can't afford nice things or they never fit so I end up with Jeans and T-shirts 24-7. I don't really consider those things "for men" but I guess online if you're not wearing dresses and fitted clothing you're not a woman anymore.

I saw someone trying to convince a kid online they were trans for wearing t-shirts and that's just bullshit ok. Clothes don't make thee (a) man.

I get called a man a lot because of my art. Most of the time it's just a mistake. I don't really care to correct them. Once they get to know me they figure out I'm a girl. Sometimes it's in anger. Like only men can draw women looking sexy. Male gaze male gaze objectification. Misogynist. I've ever fought with people over it and they still call me a man even if I say I'm not. It's like they can't live in their world anymore if there's a girl that defies their narrative. It's not even that I only draw women either. I have two art personalities, basically. Tumblr gets all my man candy and DA gets all my lady art.

The one I remember most said I was being awful and objectifying women for having a fetish (In which I want to be the females I draw) where they(A woman) drew explicit gay porn.

I'm the bad guy because women can't deal with sexy art. I think the whole thing has given me an interesting perspective in that I've basically seen both sides. I have yet to get any complaints about my beefcake art so I've become a bit angry about women that complain about cheesecake.

I'm not sure if that's all about labels but there it is.

Re: "I am not your label"

(Anonymous) 2014-05-22 05:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Just to add, even though I don't think anyone will read this: Mom wasn't upset about the lesbian thing. She wouldn't care if I was. I don't want anyone to hate anonymousmom.

I was just annoyed she took my lack of relationships with anyone was a sign of lesbianism.