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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-29 07:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #2704 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2704 ⌋

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diet_poison: (Default)

Re: muh M&Ms

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-05-30 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
Are black/Hispanic men statistically a significant threat to white/Asian men? Serious question, I'd like to see the stats for this if they exist.

Also, as others have pointed out: shit analogy. Humans and human interactions are more complex than fucking M&Ms.

Not to mention how insensitive comments like this are to women who have a wariness of men built up because of actual, repeated experiences of abuse. Villainizing those women and acting like they need to just suck it up and look at the stats and will all those fears away is an especially callous kind of bad behavior imo.
quirkytizzy: (Default)

Re: muh M&Ms

[personal profile] quirkytizzy 2014-05-30 10:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't believe most men BELIEVE that these experiences are "repeated", though. That's the problem. We're screaming into the wind about a thousand tiny cuts and many men simply don't see it as a problem unless we've been hit by a broadsword.

(Nerdy analogy is nerdy.)
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: muh M&Ms

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-05-31 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
No no, excellent analogy is excellent! I mean, it's also nerdy, but dude this is f!s, we're all nerds. I hope you don't mind if I borrow that analogy because it's really good. A broadsword stroke might be more dramatic and it might kill you faster, but a thousand dagger (or even a dozen) cuts will still bleed you dead given enough time.
quirkytizzy: (Default)

Re: muh M&Ms

[personal profile] quirkytizzy 2014-05-31 12:47 am (UTC)(link)

Not at all - have at using that analogy! And thank you. I love how you put it, too - given enough time, it will still bleed you dry.