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fandomsecrets2014-05-31 04:03 pm
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Re: Suprisingly decent article on self defence
(Anonymous) 2014-05-31 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Suprisingly decent article on self defence
(Anonymous) 2014-05-31 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Suprisingly decent article on self defence
(Anonymous) 2014-06-01 12:18 am (UTC)(link)Chances are, that your attacker will have done this before. If they are an adult they almost certainly have done this before, since most rape/robbers start learning this in their early teenage years, they'll know what to expect better than you do. They have muscle memory and higher pain tolerance on their side.
Re: Suprisingly decent article on self defence
(Anonymous) 2014-06-01 12:38 am (UTC)(link)Oh, bull-fucking-shit.
Re: Suprisingly decent article on self defence
By your reasoning, responsibly taught and meant-to-be-preventative self-defense methods are a total waste of time.
So how come they've saved so many lives? Mine included?
Also, anyone who knows that self-defense (both unarmed and armed) actually works, also knows that you can't just go on a 5-hour course and expect it to last the rest of your life. You keep at it.
Good self-defense courses (both unarmed and armed) deliberately focus on muscle memory; good self-defense instructors insist that you should come to class at least once a week *forever* (twice a week is better).
But the bottom line is, if everyone suddenly took on your mentality, the unnatural death-rate in just about every country would noticeably spike.
Re: Suprisingly decent article on self defence
(Anonymous) 2014-06-01 12:35 am (UTC)(link)Fuck everyone in here all "don't bother, you're probs gonna get raped anyway and you'll only hurt yourself" like no literally come over here and eat my shit.
Re: Suprisingly decent article on self defence
(Anonymous) 2014-06-01 12:52 am (UTC)(link)Re: Suprisingly decent article on self defence
And again: being aware of the risks and taking them is the choice that's being made, here.
Re: Suprisingly decent article on self defence
Like I get it, it sucks but that's the way the cookie crumbles. Running, screaming and shouting is far more likely to lead to a better outcome, even if it isn't perfect and you know anecdotes where it didn't work.