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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-05-31 04:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2706 ]


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Re: What's your opinion on homewreckers?

(Anonymous) 2014-06-01 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
I don't care much for those kinds who cheat but are afraid to leave the relationship they currently have because it's too hard to leave for whatever reason.

Now, if a middle-aged man was losing his wife to some early onset dementia or something, and she basically no longer recognized him or at least recognized him as her husband and probably never would again... I'd have a hard time judging him if he started seeking companionship.

I think marriage vows should be followed as best as two people can, but sometimes life just throws some crazy ass curveballs.

If a woman was being abused by her husband, and she was running to a guy with whom she felt safe... all things considered, I probably wouldn't judge the cheating as much. I'd be all for her finding a safe place and getting a divorce.

But people in general who know about existing relationships and have affairs anyway... I kind of look down on that. If your relationship is so unsatisfying that you have to seek sex elsewhere, then you ought to be working on your relationship, or at least have the balls or woman balls to end the relationship first before getting with your new lover. And the single person should not pursue someone who isn't free to be pursued, no matter how much sweet-talk is being given.

I guess my point is people in relationships have their responsibilities as do the people outside the relationships. Of course exceptions exist.