[ SECRET POST #2708 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2708 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Degrassi Junior High/Degrassi High and Saved By The Bell]


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03.
[The Cinema Snob]

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04.
[Phil Robertson from Duck Dynasty]


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05.
[Silicon Valley]


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06.
[Xavier Dolan]


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07.
[Pacific Rim]


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[Sailor Moon]


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09.
[Iwan Rheon]


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10.
[Love Stage!!]


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11.
[The Losers (movie)]


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[K-pop]










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Comments

Re: How do you feel about PDA?

[kallanda_lee]

I like PDA. My own, or others'. I personally won't go into full make-out mode, but I totally will kiss and be physical in public. Seeing other people be in love and into each other makes me happy.

As for the heavier stuff...I wouldn't d it myself, but it doesn't bother me very much. I've seen even seen strangers masturbating each other at a party once. I think it's amusing more than anything else.

Re: How do you feel about PDA?

[a_potato]

It's a funny thing: I'm okay with seeing people make out at a party, and I'd probably be okay with what you've described. There's something about the atmosphere that makes it less awkward.

But if I saw two people engaging in mutual masturbating on, say, on a park bench, then I would be very uncomfortable.

Re: How do you feel about PDA?

[kallanda_lee]

I just...don't know. I agree atmosphere factors into it a lot, but as a rule I'm just generally un-offended by human sexuality - unless they're specifically bothering me with it.

Re: How do you feel about PDA?

[a_potato]

I'm thinking it's probably a cultural thing. I must admit that I do hail from the land of Puritanical prudes, heh.

Re: How do you feel about PDA?

[kallanda_lee]

Even here, it sort of differs. I haven't quite figured it out. There's definitely a difference in how Europe deals with nudity on TV (and even those morals seem to be shifting) - but in real life, that's still different. There are people with different sensitivities all over the world.

Re: How do you feel about PDA?

[a_potato]

Oh, absolutely. Culture isn't deterministic.

However, I think the likelihood that a display of affection will make someone uncomfortable is apt to be greater in a society with more restrictive norms (and the opposite is apt be true in a society with more permissive norms). There will always be some variation between individuals, but there's bound to be a trend in one direction or the other.

Re: How do you feel about PDA?

[diet_poison]

I'm not gonna lie, people masturbating (alone or with someone) in public would make me really, REALLY uncomfortable if I ever saw it.

There's being in tune with your sexuality, and then there's publicizing it, and I honestly think that's a violation of privacy. :/

Re: How do you feel about PDA?

[kallanda_lee]

I can see how it makes people uncomfortable! I think I just have a really high threshold for being upset by it.

Re: How do you feel about PDA?

[diet_poison]

Fair enough! ^^;

Re: How do you feel about PDA?

[(Anonymous)]

Eh, for me if people are being overly physical in public then...well. It just comes across as sad to me since it always registers as "so insecure they have to make sure everyone knows their together".

That and, frankly, I always saw that as forcing other people to take part in your sexuality regardless of if they liked it or not which is all kinds of Hell No for me.