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⌈ Secret Post #2709 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Sexuality labels...at what point do you change how you identify?

[kallanda_lee]

Labels are tricky things. One one hand some people reject them, while other cling to them because they become ingrained in their identity. While this is an extreme example, it's not that uncommon.

Also, I know several bi people who sadly just don't bother with the label because they get shit. One of my eldest friends since high-school identified as gay for years, while still sleeping with women, and while he's living with one now - because it was just an easier label for him. My own bf has been with both guys and gals before me, but honestly in the 6 years we're together I have never heard himself as bi (or, anything else indicating sexual orientation for that matter). I think it's extra tricky if you sway strongly (but not fully) to one gender, because the label might feel dis-genuine - such might be the case with your friends' friends. It's difficult to figure out the reasons unless you really know them.