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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-04 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2710 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2710 ⌋

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Re: Partly inspired by 9...

[personal profile] nyxelestia 2014-06-05 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
My boyfriend and I met at school, but we do basically share a fandom, sort of. (We're both huge Captain America fans, and marvel fans in general). Mostly, though, while our shared interests are a huge part of our relationship, they are not the center of our relationship, so it's not a big issue for us.

It means we'll nearly always have something to talk about and generally we'll easily agree on what to watch for a movie date or whatever (we've seen all of MCU Phase 2 together). But we also have our own wildly different interests, and we have plenty of things we do on our own (i.e. next Friday, I'll watch How to Train Your Dragon 2 on our own, but if everything goes to plan then we'll watch Maleficent together after that).

So if fandom is the front door to a relationship, I don't see anything inherently wrong witht that, but if it's the foundation, then there's a good chance the relationship will crash once you lose that underlying base (aka change or leave fandoms).