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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-05 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2711 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2711 ⌋

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nyxelestia: Rose Icon (Default)

Try bringing it up like you never did before.

[personal profile] nyxelestia 2014-06-06 04:34 am (UTC)(link)
Literally.

Just bring it up again as if it's the first time you're ever bringing it up with them, like you two have never talked about it, before.

If your friend has actually changed and is just too embarrassed to own up to their past mistakes, then this provide an "out" where they can show support now without having to admit to that mistake. (If admitting that mistake is a big issue for you, get their support then bring up the past later.) I've found the best way to convince someone of your idea is to make them think it's theirs, and it works concerning changed views too - people are more willing to admit to a mistake once they are "in the right" and the mistake is no longer causing a definitive problem right now.

If, on the other hand, your friend is just paying lip service for the attention, then they'll probably react the same way they did last time, and now you know where they actually stand on the matter and can make your decision about your friendship with them from there.