[ SECRET POST #2712 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #2712 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Hemlock Grove]


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02.
[The Walking Dead Game/Toy Story 3/etc]


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03.
[Long Live the Queen]


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04. [repeat]


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05.
[Rupaul's Drag Race]


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06.
[Dr Who - An Adventure in Space and Time]


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07. http://i.imgur.com/TEcm28n.gif
[moving gif]


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08.
[Conchita Wurst, Daniel Gildenlow]


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09.
[petals on the wind]


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10.
[Until the Full Moon]


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11.
(Homestuck, John/Jade)


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12.
[Once Upon a Time]


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13.
[Homestuck]


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14. [WARNING for rape]



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15. [WARNING for suicide]



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16. [WARNING for abuse?]



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17. [WARNING for suicide]





















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #387.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: over a third of women have never been harassed in the street

[sarillia]

I just deleted a similar comment without posting it down in the drunk sex/rape thread because I wasn't sure if it was logically consistent. And this is why. I don't agree with your comment here.

Re: over a third of women have never been harassed in the street

[case]

That's fine with me! It only really applies to me anyway, if someone else were in the same situation and felt differently about it, I'm not about to say they should feel (or react, or lack-of-react) the same way as I did.

Re: over a third of women have never been harassed in the street

[(Anonymous)]

My sister gets called fag sometimes outside (She's a butch lesbian) She finds it offensive because she's really sexually repulsed by guys, and not because it's a gay slur. So, I think it's just different depending on the person.

Re: over a third of women have never been harassed in the street

[case]

Someone I know just put it well -

It's like if someone tries to break into my house with the express intent to steal, but doesn't manage to steal anything. The person is still a burglar, nothing changes that, but it'd be kind of disingenuous for me to say "I got stolen from," or "I'm a victim of theft."

Was that guy a harasser, well yes, but I'd feel weird saying "I'm a victim of harassment" because he didn't really succeed at what he tried to do. That isn't meant to, and doesn't, excuse his actions, though.

If people ARE trying and succeeding at offending your sister, that's a different thing, yeah.

Re: over a third of women have never been harassed in the street

[(Anonymous)]

Um no offense, but I'm pretty sure harassment is much simpler than people here are making it out to be. If it only happened to you once, and you didn't care, then you didn't feel harassed.

They're (the site?) talking about people who don't feel safe or can't make it through a city after work or before work without someone invading their personal space (as in going right up in your face or purposely walking too close or touching you), making them feel threatened or reducing them to a sexual slur or belittling them on a regular basis. It's really aggravating especially if you're having a crappy day to begin with.

I get this kind of stuff every few weeks if I leave the safety of my bus stop for too long or end up on the yucky side of town, so I think I fall under the category of women who get harassed.

Re: over a third of women have never been harassed in the street

[case]

Why would that offend me? I'm completely agreeing with you. That's why I'd generally say "no" if someone asked me if I was harassed, except the study defined it so broadly that according to their terms I'd have to say "technically yes then, I guess" and that was weird to me.