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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-06 07:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #2712 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2712 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Hemlock Grove]


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02.
[The Walking Dead Game/Toy Story 3/etc]


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03.
[Long Live the Queen]


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04. [repeat]


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05.
[Rupaul's Drag Race]


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06.
[Dr Who - An Adventure in Space and Time]


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07. http://i.imgur.com/TEcm28n.gif
[moving gif]


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08.
[Conchita Wurst, Daniel Gildenlow]


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09.
[petals on the wind]


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10.
[Until the Full Moon]


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11.
(Homestuck, John/Jade)


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12.
[Once Upon a Time]


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13.
[Homestuck]


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14. [WARNING for rape]



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15. [WARNING for suicide]



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16. [WARNING for abuse?]



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17. [WARNING for suicide]





















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #387.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: *TW: rape* Is drunken sex rape?

(Anonymous) 2014-06-07 04:45 am (UTC)(link)
This is not black-and-white. It's much more nuanced that this simple question suggests. This is my standing:

If anyone was too drunk to consent willingly and eagerly, then yes it is technically rape. It sucks, but I think it's true. Once upon a time, I had someone come into the centre where I work and say that he thought he unintentionally raped someone the night before -- and was right, and the girl was distraught. Now that doesn't mean he's a horrible person, but he made a massive mistake and at least he was trying to make up for it in some way.

If all parties are eager and willing, then it's not rape. If everyone knows what's going on, and are keen to proceed, you're golden. It sucks hard if someone changes their minds the next morning, but there's a huge difference between "Yes!" and "No."