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I had a sex dream about a friend, and now she's all I can think about, and I'm acting really weird and reading in to her response or lack of response to things on facebook and AHHHH.

This is so stupid and illogical. It was just random brain firings. It didn't mean anything. And it doesn't mean anything if she responds one way or another to a goddamn post online that she might not even have seen.

BUT ALL I CAN THINK ABOUT IS THE NEXT TIME I SEE HER and if maybe there's a possibility of something happening what the even fuck. I'm not even single.

Shit.

I feel your pain, anon. I had a dream the other night that both me and a friend left our fiances and ran off together. Woke up... and found myself disappointed that I was dreaming.

Considering the hints that have been dropped throughout the years, I kind of wonder if I should mention it to her before either of us actually get married to our significant others. But like you said, random brain firings don't exactly signify anything.

Aww. I've been there.

For a really long time, the only sex dreams I ever had were about people that I was in no way sexually attracted to: the least intelligent and attractive boy in 6th grade, my uncle (*headdesk*), my hated grad school professor while my mom watched and critiqued (lots of lovely psychology to unpack there, oh yes).

so, I feel your pain. It's awkward and weird. But hey, you're not having sex dreams about your uncle. Or your mom. so you totally win!

But hey, you're not having sex dreams about your uncle. Or your mom. so you totally win!

I'm sorry you had to go through that because it sounds absolutely terrible and traumatizing, but ngl, it made me laugh. And you have a point...OP could be dreaming about worse people!

(To OP: maybe it'll pass. Give it some time. If it doesn't...maybe it's a crush? A crush is pretty nonthreatening. Annoying sometimes, but not always a huge deal.)

I think the one about my uncle was the worst because I was thirteen and it happened on the eve of us going on this long summer vacation with him and his family and it was so awkward to be in such close quarters with him immediately afterward. By the time I got to the dream where Dr. Buttface had her way with me on the floor of her office underneath a bookshelf while my mom watched, I was old enough to be all, "Ew, brain, no." and go on with life.

LOL

Oh god....

Poor you. I don't even know what to say to that, but I realize looking him in the eye immediately afterward must've been awkward as hell. If you kept your distance as best you could for a while there I wouldn't blame you. (You can't help what you dream, though! At least your older self didn't dwell on the mother one.)

+1, story of my life. I had tons of unwanted sexual thoughts all the time due to my OCD, and also had sex dreams about tons of people I wasn't attracted to, including every member of my immediate family (though not all at once). Having sexual thoughts all the time about pretty much every person I saw (friends, teachers, family members) was annoying enough but I think the most annoying one I ever had was when for some reason I was thinking about George W. Bush and Dick Cheney and suddenly my brain helpfully supplied me a vivid image of a threesome with them, and when I was horrified by it my brain helped even more by making it more and more detailed and dragging it on for a super long time.

Well, needless to say, eventually I got to the point where no sexual thoughts of anyone phase me any more. I also still get the kind of "sigh, why brain why" but I've learned to ignore it. Plus I'm on medication for my OCD now so that helps some. Though I'll still get random thoughts from time to time about fucking my family members and so on.

maybe you could channel it into writing entertaining badfic of crack pairings

i'm sure there's people on the internet who would totally love to read a Dick Cheney and George W. Bush slashfic

Good for those people, but I don't want to read it nor think about and I certainly don't want to write fic of it. I might not be able to help the thoughts but I'm not going to waste my time trying to turn that into written porn.

*hugs*

That's got to be really annoying to deal with, especially the George Bush and Dick Cheney one.

Awww. I recently had a dream the professor I crushed on in spring took me on as an assistant. I lived with her in her house and when I feelingly told her I loved her, she rolled her eyes and told me, "I'm aware of that" and walked away. It was weird and kind of awesome.

It might be random brain firings, anon - but it sounds like this dream has made you realise you kind of do (or very easily could) like your friend as more than a friend. So maybe instead of just trying to dismiss this dream as 'just a dream', use this as an opportunity to work out whether you really do like your friend (or want to like your friend) in this way.

This dream could also not be about your friend, but could instead be a sign that you're unhappy or there is something not quite right with your relationship at the moment. What there something about your connection with your friend in your dream that's missing in your relationship at the moment?

nayrt

but it sounds like this dream has made you realise you kind of do (or very easily could) like your friend as more than a friend.

Or it could just mean they miss their friend due to some recent event or events, in a completely nonsexual way.

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