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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-16 07:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2722 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2722 ⌋

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Re: Confession thread

(Anonymous) 2014-06-16 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
A couple of years ago I had a crush on a girl, and she rejected me. I got over it and we've been friendly since then. Now she's dating someone and every time I see their cutesy conversations on tumblr I feel jealous and hurt. It's completely irrational and I wish I wasn't like this.

Re: Confession thread

(Anonymous) 2014-06-17 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
I've been there, anon. Best cure is to fight the masochistic urge to read those conversations and to focus on improving your own life: new hobbies, new look, new friends, new skills, whatever.

Re: Confession thread

(Anonymous) 2014-06-17 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
It's perfectly legitimate to feel jealous and hurt. As long as you don't act out on it and be mature about it you should be fine.

Re: Confession thread

(Anonymous) 2014-06-17 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
This. I've been there when someone has acted out, passive agressively, in a situation like the one you're in OP, and they just made a complete ass of themself, and it kinda lowered my opinion of them for a while. Everything's fine now with all parties, but acting out on this kind of stuff can be really gross and ugly.
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Re: Confession thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-06-17 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
I have been in a sort of similar situation, anon. And I have days where I just get really jealous and angry even when I see a happy couple holding hands or walking with their arms around each other in public, because I had a relationship like that once and I still really, really miss that companionship. I just keep it to myself though and make myself think about something else, and I think I am handling it the right way. Like others said - distract yourself, focus on something else, and don't make a scene, and you'll be just fine, because your response is perfectly normal.