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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-16 07:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2722 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2722 ⌋

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Re: Confession thread

(Anonymous) 2014-06-17 05:43 am (UTC)(link)
2. Maybe if you weren't such shitty role models, your kids would not be so shitty too. Discipline is a real thing. It hurts when your kid is being bullied, but I would die of all the same in the world if my kid was ever doing the bullying. And guess, what? She isn't. Because we're not sociopaths who think being mean to people is funny.

4. Just because they are children does not mean that their feelings aren't real or valid or that they can't be held accountable for being little assholes.


Man that's something I wish I could say to certain people I knew too. Like there's this one old lady across the street that I used to know who was a real nasty piece of work (think Umbridge if she didn't have any political influence). Anyway, she spoiled her son rotten and the kid ended up in jail a few times and she keeps shouting about the injustice of it all. *rolls eyes* The son was held accountable for multiple harassment, stalking, and sexual assault charges because his ex girlfriend got a restraining order against him. But you know, obviously it's because he just needs more love.
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Re: Confession thread

[personal profile] lunabee34 2014-06-17 12:06 pm (UTC)(link)
*nods nods*

I do not at all think I am the perfect parent or that my kids are the perfect kids. I have failed at parenting more often than I'd like to admit. But my kids aren't the mean kids. Ever. The baby's too little to discuss in this way, but my older daughter is kind and empathetic and loyal, and she just gets so floored when other people mistreat her because it would never occur to her to backstab a friend, for example.

*shakes head*

That old lady sounds like she is in a buttload of denial. There's advocating for your kid, and then there's living in a whole 'nother reality from the rest of the world.