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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-19 06:46 pm

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Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2014-06-19 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm trying online dating, and so far the only guys who've made contact with me in return are guys I'm only... sort of interested in. Is it giving them a chance to respond while I keep looking, or is it leading them on?

In the same vein, is it wrong to be turned off by spelling errors?
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Re: Advice thread

[personal profile] sarillia 2014-06-19 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I talked to a lot of different people all at once while I was on OKC. I don't think it's reasonable for someone to expect you to be exclusive from the first reply onward.

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2014-06-19 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
No, it is not wrong to be turned off by spelling errors, I certainly am. Especially if they claim they have a degree, but spell like a grade-schooler.
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Re: Advice thread

[personal profile] othellia 2014-06-20 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
You're find with continuing to look. Like sarilla said, it's just messaging. Sometimes you'll find after two or three that "nah, I'm not interested," so it'd take you a very long time to find someone you click with if you're only going at it one message/person at a time.

And no, spelling errors are a valid turn off in my book. Especially in the age of computers where it does the checking for you and everything has a red squiggly line under it if it's wrong.

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2014-06-20 04:42 am (UTC)(link)
After a couple of messages, you'll have a clearer idea of how interested, or not, you are. In my experience you learn more about someone from a couple of emails than from their profile.