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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-19 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2725 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2725 ⌋

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Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2014-06-20 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
First off: totally hear you on terrifying rejection thing. It's really, really hard to take the first step.

Second off: I can't really speak to starting a facebook messaging thing, but I did at one point spend something like 6 months psyching myself up to ask a friend out. Honestly, even though he wasn't interested, it was way better to just have an answer than to stress over how to make a move. And, while there was like a week of awkwardness, we're still very close friends several years later. So it also won't necessarily ruin everything to say something.

Third: for the actual facebook message instigation, try sending a link to something you think he'd like or find interesting. That's a low-stakes and reasonable way to open the conversation.