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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-19 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2725 ]


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Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2014-06-20 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
Rejection is pretty scary, but it's something that we blow up in our own minds from molehills to mountains. You have a lot more control over the embarrassment factor than you think you do, I promise. It sounds silly, but... if you pretend you are cool with it and keep acting normally (even if you're faking like crazy), chances are nobody will notice OR care. That's true for 99% of social interactions. Fake it till you make it.

Plus you're not even talking about asking him out, just chatting. How would you talk to him if you were just talking to a friend and not a guy you like?