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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-20 07:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #2726 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2726 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Naruto]


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[Transformers: Prime]


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05. http://i.imgur.com/dkPX9Ym.gif
[moving .gif, Steven Ogg, Grand Theft Auto V]


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07. [SPOILERS for Murder in the First]



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08. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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09. [WARNING for rape]



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10. [WARNING for rape]



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11. [WARNING for rape, abuse, etc]



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12. [WARNING for rape, abuse, pedophilia, incest, ironically enough none of which OP warned for]



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13. [WARNING for eating disorders]



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14. [WARNING for suicide]



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15. [WARNING for sexual abuse]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #389.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - ships it ].
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Re: Sexuality v. Sexual Orientation

(Anonymous) 2014-06-21 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not fond of people trying to limit the definition of "queer" (I don't think that's what you're doing, Anon) and I think that in the long run, people who experience sex in a relatively traditional way allying themselves with the LGBT community is a good thing.

But I do think it's obnoxious when people of any sexuality that hasn't been actively repressed start playing the oppression card. I even think it's obnoxious when LGBT folks start claiming persecution in situations where it doesn't exist, or when they've never experienced it. "Oh no I have to wait months or years before I can have sex with my partner!" is not persecution. Not even close.

Re: Sexuality v. Sexual Orientation

(Anonymous) 2014-06-21 03:20 am (UTC)(link)
But queer has a meaning, and I should think to most people who are actually queer (myself included), "expanding" the meaning seems like it's trying to water down our struggle at worst, and at best, get seriously off topic. First off, "demisexual" isn't remotely queer at all, and secondly, where would we stop when we start expanding the definition?

Of course I think people should ally with the LGBT community. But calling yourself "queer" because you're not sexually attracted to strangers isn't a great way to be an ally, and certainly doesn't make you a member. Even if you don't claim to be oppressed, why would you describe yourself with language that doesn't apply to you? It just doesn't make sense to me.

" I even think it's obnoxious when LGBT folks start claiming persecution in situations where it doesn't exist, or when they've never experienced it. "Oh no I have to wait months or years before I can have sex with my partner!" is not persecution. Not even close. "

I'm really not sure what you mean by this..

Re: Sexuality v. Sexual Orientation

(Anonymous) 2014-06-21 08:07 pm (UTC)(link)
" I even think it's obnoxious when LGBT folks start claiming persecution in situations where it doesn't exist, or when they've never experienced it. "Oh no I have to wait months or years before I can have sex with my partner!" is not persecution. Not even close. "

I'm really not sure what you mean by this..


Especially considering there are actually differences in the ages of consent based on if it is queer sex or not. Some places have het ages of consent set at something like 17 but then have the ages of consent for queer sex at 21 (if it's even legal there at all).