[ SECRET POST #2726 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2726 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Naruto]


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03.
[Transformers: Prime]


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05. http://i.imgur.com/dkPX9Ym.gif
[moving .gif, Steven Ogg, Grand Theft Auto V]


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07. [SPOILERS for Murder in the First]



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08. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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09. [WARNING for rape]



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10. [WARNING for rape]



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11. [WARNING for rape, abuse, etc]



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12. [WARNING for rape, abuse, pedophilia, incest, ironically enough none of which OP warned for]



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13. [WARNING for eating disorders]



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14. [WARNING for suicide]



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15. [WARNING for sexual abuse]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #389.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - ships it ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Sexuality v. Sexual Orientation

[(Anonymous)]

The thing that bothers me about labels like 'demisexuality' is that it is literally no one else's business (outside of the person you're dating) how much sex you are or aren't having or when or why you're having sex. It affects absolutely nothing. It's not something that's visible; no one even knows about it unless you tell them.

So to act as if it's somehow the same thing as being gay or straight or bi is... well, stupid. People will notice if a woman walks down the street holding hands with her girlfriend, but no one has a clue how much sex they're having or even if they're having sex at all.

Re: Sexuality v. Sexual Orientation

[(Anonymous)]

This is a really good point.

Re: Sexuality v. Sexual Orientation

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, this. I don't really like to be defined my labels in general, but I am gay, that heavily affects my life. Me being in serious relationships, how we're treated, how I'm treated, and so on.

Someone who doesn't want to have sex with strangers, that's not an identity. I'm sorry, if "demisexual" helps you understand your body's way of doing things, whatever, but it's not an identity, or at least not one that matters. All it does is describe your pattern of attraction, there's nothing queer or "abnormal" about it. It's not really going to affect your life or how the world treats you. As you said, it's not "visible", it's not even particularly inconvenient, it's not outside the normal spectrum of attraction and says nothing to suggest the types of relationships you're having. It just isn't meaningful to anyone outside of you and your partner, and I don't see it remotely relevant to anything except in perhaps a discussion on the nature of sexual attraction.