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⌈ Secret Post #2726 ⌋

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[Naruto]

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[Transformers: Prime]

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05. http://i.imgur.com/dkPX9Ym.gif
[moving .gif, Steven Ogg, Grand Theft Auto V]

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07. [SPOILERS for Murder in the First]

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08. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]

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09. [WARNING for rape]

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10. [WARNING for rape]

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11. [WARNING for rape, abuse, etc]

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12. [WARNING for rape, abuse, pedophilia, incest, ironically enough none of which OP warned for]

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13. [WARNING for eating disorders]

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14. [WARNING for suicide]

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15. [WARNING for sexual abuse]

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You called me inhuman and then went 'gosh but I'm hungry so lol my bad' and have a million excuses why you shouldn't be accountable for the wrong or hurtful shit you're saying and now you're trying to act like I'm the one in the wrong here. Own (and understand) your words and don't make tangents that you aren't willing to defend.

Okay, honey. Have it. If it helps you to feel like I think you're not human, it's all yours.

(I did, btw, own up to the grammatical error that associated alternate sexualities with not being human. That was a mistake - one I made with sloppy writing.)

But seriously - have fun with your feelings. Whatever gets you through the day, babe.

Seriously?

You are hurtful as a result of your self-described 'sloppiness' and when called on it, your response is textbook condescension?

I'm glad you showed what kind of person you are early on.

Yeeeep. You said "you said this" I said "I did not" you pointed out that YES, I did actually say that.

And then I said "Wow. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to say that. This is what I meant."

I'm so terrible. What with admitting that I said the wrong thing and all that.

Gosh, just so terrible.

You're making it all about you at my expense, so clearly you're not very remorseful.

You are the one talking about me, about the things I am saying, how I'm saying it, what I've said.

I'm just following conversational cues. If you want to talk about the fact that how I spoke hurt you - I'm okay with that. Really, I am.

I get how being mischaracterized by that - by sloppy writing, even - can hurt. A LOT. So if you want to talk about that - you can talk about that. I'm not going to jump on you for being angry (hell, I'm a HYYUGE fan of social change through anger and whatnot.)

It's just that - if I say "I didn't mean it that way", you either have to accept that...or don't. And you don't accept. Or haven't, at least. So after I admit what I did wrong, there's nothing else for me to do.

Except, I guess, get angry back.

...which didn't really solve anything, did it?

I'm condescending because when people apologize, and say "I said the wrong thing", what normally happens is a discussion, not further reaming.

shrug Oh well.

You should google the term 'fauxpology' and understand what you did (and are still doing).

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