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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-22 04:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2728 ]


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Re: Advice wanted! Dealing with feeling alone.

(Anonymous) 2014-06-23 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
OP, I could have written up a very similar...OP-thing a month or two ago (the difference is I'm home from college atm, which has alleviated some of the loneliness). I really like my privacy and after roommate drama from last year I thought I'd be fine with living by myself; I'm fine living by myself, but I essential inadvertently cut off most contact with my old roommates (who are friends, just got a little drama-y), and my only social contact was with other friends, but only during classes. Got to the point where I even looked up definitions of loneliness and stuff on Google. For me it felt like an urge to do something that can't be filled very easily even though you think that doing whatever it is will help, and I'm wondering what it feels like to you. I don't really have any advice for you though, but I think what did help a bit was playing online co-op multiplayer games, but not sure that will exactly help you.

Re: Advice wanted! Dealing with feeling alone.

(Anonymous) 2014-06-23 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
It sounds like you're feeling better now so I'm glad for you. Being alone or in solitude is one thing, but prolonged loneliness is awful.

I'd have to say that "having an urge that can't be filled" is a pretty good way to put it. I need somebody I also feel that it's pointless to do much of anything because I have nobody to share those things with. Sadly, I too got desperate and was google-ing things a few days ago, just hoping to find some advice for learning to be okay with being a hermit.

I don't think the videogame thing would help much, but it might. I know it would help to socialize a bit. I probably really need to actually have a real relationship with somebody with meaning and emotional connection. I.E. make a friend, I currently only have one and it's a bit of a stretch to even count them at this point in time, no real "connections" at all and they rarely speak to me these days. I don't see making any friends in my near future, unfortunately.

Sorry I sound so dramatic, I don't mean to sound that way.