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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-22 04:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2728 ]


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Re: Advice wanted! Dealing with feeling alone.

(Anonymous) 2014-06-23 03:45 am (UTC)(link)
It wasn't clear from your comment, but... do you want this to change and are your circumstances such that you'd be able to get out and socialize if the opportunities arose? Because if it is, then I'd suggest pursuing a hobby of some kind, maybe a new one. Meetup.com can be good for finding existing groups to join or just browsing what's available. Fire up Google maps and look up all the parks within your area and visit each one.

If you're not able to physically get out and socialize, then I'd suggest trying to reframe the situation by being kind to yourself. If you have a free evening, use it to do something you've been meaning to do, but haven't done yet. Learn to knit, read a book, catch up on movies/TV, cook a nice meal for yourself, etc. Keeping busy is a really good way to not feel lonely when you're alone, because doing something productive (or semi-productive) feels useful.