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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-23 06:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #2729 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2729 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[killer is dead]


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03.
[Lackadaisy]


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04.
[Joe Trohman, Fall Out Boy]


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05.
[Yowamushi Pedal]


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06.
[How To Train Your Dragon 2]


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07.
[A Game of Thrones]


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08.
[Fruit's Basket]


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09.
[Community]


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10.
[Rythian, a.k.a Joakim Hellstrand]


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11.
[The Devil Wears Prada]


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12.
[Night Court]










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Re: What grinds your gears?

(Anonymous) 2014-06-24 12:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Friends who remind me (loudly!) that I have a boyfriend when we're going out together. Yes, I know I have a relationship. No, that doesn't mean I am going to stop going dancing. I like dancing, he doesn't, ergo, I dance with other people. I like nightlife, he doesn't. So no, I don't see anything wrong with going out with the girls and no, that doesn't mean I'll not have a playful flirt if I want.

He has the same sort of thing with other activities (martial arts, yoga, hiking trips)and the same freedom to flirt with / look at / be attractive in the presence of anybody he wants. When I tried to explain this to them, they kept insisting that that's DIFFERENT but not being able to satisfactorily explain why.

I mean, obviously, if I was leading somebody on that'd be a problem. If somebody tries to ask me out, or makes any sort of serious mood I do let them know clearly that I'm not available. But what the FUCK is wrong with someone in a relationship having fun for once withOUT their significant other?

Re: What grinds your gears?

(Anonymous) 2014-06-24 12:52 pm (UTC)(link)
/ serious move, not serious mood.