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⌈ Secret Post #2729 ⌋

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[killer is dead]

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[Lackadaisy]

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[Joe Trohman, Fall Out Boy]

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[Yowamushi Pedal]

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[How To Train Your Dragon 2]

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[A Game of Thrones]

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[Fruit's Basket]

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[Community]

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[Rythian, a.k.a Joakim Hellstrand]

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[The Devil Wears Prada]

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[Night Court]

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Thing is, I don't get to decide when someone is "really hurt." I can have opinions about the reasonableness of their degree of hurt, but to go farther than that WOULD be to deny their right to their feelings. And surely you've heard the "intent isn't magical!" mantra that comes from "I didn't mean to..."

So really, it seems like the only thing I can do in these particular cases is acknowledge how someone feels and apologize for causing that feeling. But it seems like there's always that next level of "RECOGNIZE YOUR WRONGNESS! STAND THERE IN YOUR WRONGNESS AND BE WRONG!!" that I don't think is always warranted but always seems expected.

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Re: What grinds your gears?