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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-23 06:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #2729 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2729 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[killer is dead]


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03.
[Lackadaisy]


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04.
[Joe Trohman, Fall Out Boy]


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05.
[Yowamushi Pedal]


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06.
[How To Train Your Dragon 2]


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07.
[A Game of Thrones]


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08.
[Fruit's Basket]


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09.
[Community]


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10.
[Rythian, a.k.a Joakim Hellstrand]


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11.
[The Devil Wears Prada]


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12.
[Night Court]










Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 057 secrets from Secret Submission Post #390.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: What grinds your gears?

(Anonymous) 2014-06-24 06:12 pm (UTC)(link)
No.

Can someone use "I'm sorry you're upset" in a cowardly, condescending way? Sure. But the phrase isn't actually cowardly or condescending. It can be, and often is, used as an expression of sympathy.

Re: What grinds your gears?

(Anonymous) 2014-06-25 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
It isn't cowardly to say it when you're an objective third party.

But if you're arguing with someone and drop that on them, then yes, it is cowardly to say it. Because you're not sorry. You're just looking for a way to end the conflict and you're willing to push everything onto them so that you can come out smelling like a rose.