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⌈ Secret Post #2732 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Friendship deal killers

[fingalsanteater]

I just need irl "friends" who aren't alcoholics. I don't hang out with them much because it always involves going to the bar, or drinking. I'm trying not to drink anymore. Also, friends that aren't biphobic.

But, I don't have enough friends to afford to drop anyone definitely so I just deal.

Re: Friendship deal killers

[(Anonymous)]

Why are you not drinking anymore, if you don't mind being asked?

Re: Friendship deal killers

[fingalsanteater]

Because, a few weeks ago, I got horribly, embarrassingly drunk and everyone was embarrassed for me. I don't even think I could feel embarrassment any more, but this got me. I was drunk in a place I shouldn't have been drunk in, and I revealed a lot of stupid, really personal, base truths and fears to a person I don't particularly trust to not talk. I'd had bad experiences drinking for a few weeks before (getting super depressed at a party, using alcohol as a way to cope with being around my family, etc.) and that last time was kind of the breaking point. Oh, and I'm kind of known as the desperate, annoying, touchy-feely girl when I'm drunk, and it's not very flattering. Oh, and I always feel kind of crap after drinking, no matter how little I drink.

That's why.

Re: Friendship deal killers

[(Anonymous)]

DA

Just want to say that I've been there. I have done literally all the things you have listed. I also get too touchy feely when I'm drunk (and weirdly often start hitting on guys I'm not even interested in who aren't interested in me and who I know have girlfriends FOR NO REASON, like, it has happened enough times at this point for it to be a self destructive pattern), and I always feel awful in the morning.

I've cut back on my drinking and I feel a lot better for it, even though I do still drink socially and might have a glass or two occasionally with dinner or watching TV.

Anyway, you're not alone. Good luck on cutting back!