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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-26 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2732 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2732 ⌋

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Re: Advice needed

(Anonymous) 2014-06-27 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
I always though I was a pretty positive person, just sometimes I can be blunt and not realize people take what I say wrong. I've been told by a few people I have a bad attitude and It always surprises me because I never seen myself as being mean or angry all the time.

Uhm, the only thing I can think is, think hard before you speak, to make sure whatever you are going to say isn't going to sound mean. Obviously this is a bit easier to do when speaking over text or email. I have to do this, usually reading a message over like 5 times before I send it, to make sure I don't say something that could be offensive or make me seem mean. I'm not that good at communicating with people.
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Re: Advice needed

[personal profile] elaminator 2014-06-27 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
This is good advice. Sometimes people just aren't great at phrasing things in a way most people get and need to be a bit more careful about how they speak if they don't want to offend. It's manageable, but you might have to be a bit more conscious of how you speak.