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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-06-27 06:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #2733 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2733 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Lee Pace, JJ Feild, Tom Hiddleston]


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03.
[Dane DeHaan]


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04.
[Noragami]


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05.
[Faking It]


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[Sebastian Stan]


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08.
[Attack on Titan]


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12.
[Captain America: The Winter Soldier]


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13. http://i.imgur.com/pVuisgv.png
[game of thrones, tyrion and shae, i'm not sure but maybe sex/murder?]


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14. http://i.imgur.com/n8qvljq.jpg
[link for gore? animated, passion of the christ type stuff]














15. [SPOILERS for Orange is the New Black]



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15-B. [SPOILERS for Alice: Madness Returns]
[WARNING for rape and child abuse]



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16. [WARNING for abuse]

[Lorna Morello from Orange is the New Black]


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17. [WARNING for abuse]



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18. [WARNING for child abuse]




















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intrigueing: (harley quinn wants you to put on a happy)

Re: Thinking you're creepy when you just like someone

[personal profile] intrigueing 2014-06-28 03:22 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, I have felt that way. Quite a lot.

How do you combat it? In both fandom and RL it's the same: Try to imagine yourself in the shoes of the person you like -- how would you want someone who liked your posts and fics to treat you? Would you like them to comment on your fics and posts? Would you like them to show they liked you? And how would you like them to show it? How much information about how they feel about you would you want them to disclose?

Then, act towards them the way you'd want them to act towards you. If you mess up, well, no matter -- you can send them a clarifying PM if you're afraid they think you're weird. Just be sincere. Really -- it's pretty hard to go wrong with sincerity, as long as you stop and think and try to picture it from their point of view before you hit 'post' to make sure you're communicating clearly.