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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-05 03:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2741 ]


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internet friendship woes

(Anonymous) 2014-07-05 08:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I have this acquaintance, say; I consider her a friend, she doesn't reciprocate. Last year, her real-life best friend & roommate ditched her to move half-way across the country and marry someone she'd met six months before and dated long-distance since.
My friend spent the last year bitching about her ex-best friend and the significant other that despised her and complaining about how badly they treated her. In the end she even called the ex-friend a downright controlling, manipulating bitch, their friendship an abusive relationship, and the break-up a necessary new start.
Then, last week, after a heart-to-heart with a relative, she decided that she was better off in a bad company than alone, she started speaking again with a ex/best friend and now is going on about how she actually sounded kind of sweet.
I tried to call her out--either the friend wasn't really abusive and badmouthing her all these months was wrong, or she was and talking to her again should be a big no-no. To no avail. Saying this turned me into a bad guy.
I have to conclude that for her I was just another of these bad companies just slightly better off than no-one.
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Re: internet friendship woes

[personal profile] forgottenjester 2014-07-05 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. In the end, however, she is not the friend you want or deserve.

I hope you find better people.

Re: internet friendship woes

(Anonymous) 2014-07-05 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
What forgottenjester said. Someone who doesn't reciprocate is not your friend. It was shitty of her to use you as an agony aunt and even shittier of her to dump you for pointing out her hypocrisy, but you're better off without someone like this in your life.