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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-05 03:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2741 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2741 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-05 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, I mean, that's the point of "Love Is An Open Door." It's supposed to be an idyllic romance. You're supposed to feel that Hans and Anna are made for each other, and that their courtship--though perhaps a bit hasty--is natural and perfect. It's pretty much the embodiment of "true love" or "love at first sight," and there's nothing wrong with wanting that. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be romanced in those that flowery, overt ways--especially if you have a partner that likes making grand, romantic gestures. What's wrong is assuming that there is something wrong with your real-life relationships because they aren't "perfect," or because your partner doesn't make those big, romantic gestures... It all comes down to communication, really. If you want to be romanced the way Hans and Anna romanced each other, you should communicate your desires, and maybe you can reach a nice middle ground. It's not all that difficult to dine by candlelight or go dancing--but expecting a waterfall backdrop or the most perfect, picturesque evening is probably a little much. I'm not saying that you need to "settle" for anything, but it's important to remember that real life does not always match up with fantasy. You can absolutely model your romance after "Love Is An Open Door," just don't get caught up in losing reality along the way.