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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-06 04:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #2742 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2742 ⌋

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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-07-06 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I have no experience with self-hypnosis, and I'm not therapist, but imho you should probably try to find ways to deal with your issues that do not hinge on others (real or fictional).

What I ound helped for me with some issues was imagining myself as a heroine in "stories" and some of it I could transfer to real life. But that's a different coping mechanism than what you're using.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-06 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Seconding this and taking it a little further: I used to write 'for my eyes only' fanfiction where I would have a blatant self-insert mary sue character and I would put her through either whatever the exact same real life troubles I was going through or the universal equivalent when I could figure it out. Writing it out and watching how 'she' dealt with it in turn gave me confidence to try and work things out in real life too.

Heck, sometimes the sheer action of writing it all out helped me sort things out and deal with it that way, especially when I had to take something big and break it down into believable parts that would lead up to the big event.