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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-12 03:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #2748 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2748 ⌋

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Notes:

Early because ... World Cup! No other excuse.

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Re: Earliest sexual fantasies?

[personal profile] nyxelestia 2014-07-12 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Eh, as adults we tend to underestimate the capacity of understanding of the body little kids can have. We don't necessarily need to learn about sex in order to have it. (If anything, "the sex talk" isn't so much about teaching kids sex so much as teaching them how to have sex safely and/or why they shouldn't have it in the first place - in other words, it's about restraining a pre-existing sexuality).

My cousin and I came up with some pretty elaborate BDSM-ish fantasies as little kids, starting as young as 7-ish. I didn't get the sex talk until I was 10, soon after which I got my first exposure to porn. My parents had raised me with a strong "try looking it up yourself, first, before asking someone else" mentality, I'd just had the sex talk, and my mom didn't know how to put parental blocks on our Internet.

Within a week of Googling sex out of curiosity for the first time, I already knew to go to the BDSM or Rough section of any website I stumbled across to see stuff I actually liked, and I didn't learn that the stuff I was doing was masturbating until a year or two later.