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⌈ Secret Post #2752 ⌋

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[Fargo]

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[Orange is the New Black]

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[Helena Bonham Carter and Tim Burton]

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[DS9, Far Beyond the Stars]

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[Starsky & Hutch]

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[Trent Reznor, Nine Inch Nails]

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[Captain America: The Winter Soldier]

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[Galerians]

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[Penny Dreadful]

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[The Wolf Among us/Enslaved]

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[Wes Craven's Scream franchise]

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[One Piece]

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Please don't minimize your legitimate concerns and sadness by book ending your post with "first world problems." This is a problem you are struggling with and where you live should have no bearing on it. It's okay to feel bad about this.

A lot of monogamously inclined people will still struggle with extrarelationship sexual desires. However, the non-shitty ones will not cheat on you. There are men and women out there who are not interested in acting on sexual desires outside their commuter relationship.

nayrt

This. The people who want casual sex are prob not looking to be in a monogamous relationship in the first place, and even if later on they were, you can't say for sure they'd cheat. Someone who is open about not wanting to be exclusive is honest at least, which is... the opposite of a cheater really. Lots of those people when they get older and want to settle down will swap from being honest about casual sex to being honest about being committed and monogamous. It's not a set one way or the other thing

Also, relationships are not exclusively first-world problems. I think it's kind of silly to assume that being poor or living in a war zone means everyone magically stops having feelings and never gets crushes or falls in love or falls out of love or gets cheated on, etc.

True, but if you're poor/in a warzone/etc, you have more important problems than not finding the right boyfriend/girlfriend.

There are always more important problems than not finding a boyfriend/girlfriend, but people don't always prioritize like they should. It's a human judgement call, so don't think that impoverished neighborhoods and warzones are completely devoid of silly romantic concerns.

Commuter relationship?

Oh, lol. Stupid autocorrect. I think I meant to say "committed."

Edited 2014-07-17 00:59 (UTC)

I find that funny, because I think my relationship possibly counts as a "commuter relationship". We live in different cities. But I didn't quite get the link with monogamy.

That's a cute typo though--there are probably hundreds of fanfic romcoms about commuter relationships. :)

Thank you for the advice

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