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⌈ Secret Post #2752 ⌋

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[Fargo]

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[Orange is the New Black]

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[Helena Bonham Carter and Tim Burton]

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[DS9, Far Beyond the Stars]

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[Starsky & Hutch]

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[Trent Reznor, Nine Inch Nails]

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[Captain America: The Winter Soldier]

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[Galerians]

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[Penny Dreadful]

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[The Wolf Among us/Enslaved]

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[Wes Craven's Scream franchise]

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[One Piece]

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I honestly don't know if I want to be in a relationship or not.

My brother told me the other day that I'm "getting up there" in age (will be 30 in a few months) and if I don't want to end up a crazy cat lady I better seriously start searching for a husband.

On the one hand it upsets me because what if he's right? But on the other I'm not totally sure I'd mind being the crazy cat lady (or whatever the pet-less equivalent is; I don't have any cats, or other animals for that matter) so I don't know.

I just really don't know what I want and it's frustrating.

Your brother sounds like an idiot. Is he married? If not, I hope you pointed out that he should grab the first willing lady with a pulse unless he wants to end up a pathetic old bachelor dining on Cheetos and Bud Light. And if he scoffs, tell him that it's the 21st century, and not only aren't women obligated to get hitched before their ovaries shrivel, but their marriageability is no longer anyone's business but their own.

I'm with you on the not knowing what I want but one thing I do know is that marrying someone for that reason is a shitty thing to do. You marry someone because you love them. If you don't love anyone, don't get married. There are other things you can do with your life. And seconding the other anon, your bro sounds like an idiot.

I once told my mom I was probably going to be the crazy cat lady.

Of course she reacted with mild disgust, mostly because she wasn't taking me seriously.

Truthfully, I don't know if I'll end up as the crazy cat lady or not, but I've learned to stop thinking of my life in terms of "am I going to get a man or not."

My heart tells me it's time I learned now to take care of myself. Once I get my shit together, I'll see if I'm interested in traditional dating or being open to a relationship on my own terms (likely the latter). Right now, I don't give a shit. But I've not closed the door on not being the crazy cat lady (even though I would not be opposed to it either).

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