[ SECRET POST #2752 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2752 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Fargo]


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03.
[Orange is the New Black]


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04.
[Helena Bonham Carter and Tim Burton]


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05.
[DS9, Far Beyond the Stars]


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06.
[Starsky & Hutch]


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07.
[Trent Reznor, Nine Inch Nails]


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08.
[Captain America: The Winter Soldier]


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09.
[Galerians]


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10.
[Penny Dreadful]


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11.
[The Wolf Among us/Enslaved]


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12.
[Wes Craven's Scream franchise]


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13.
[One Piece]












Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 029 secrets from Secret Submission Post #393.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

What's on your mind!

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I've lost all faith in 'forever' monogamous relationships. I keep hearing/reading about people complaining about their relationships and how they just want to have casual sex/are tempted/don't want to waste their lives only being with one person/etc. Mostly stories from men, but some women too of course. I know it's fairly common for people to want to be monogamous, but I've been feeling weird for wanting something like that for a while now. Especially after being cheated on recently.

I know life is short and sex with lots of people can be amazing and all that, but I wish I could find a guy who didn't want to take every chance he was offered sex wise. I want someone to grow old with, so I can have someone to be with/be there for in my twilight years, but I feel like that won't be possible now if I don't just let an SO sleep around. I'd be too hurt/jealous to share a partner, however, so that's not possible. /First world problems.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[fingalsanteater]

Please don't minimize your legitimate concerns and sadness by book ending your post with "first world problems." This is a problem you are struggling with and where you live should have no bearing on it. It's okay to feel bad about this.

A lot of monogamously inclined people will still struggle with extrarelationship sexual desires. However, the non-shitty ones will not cheat on you. There are men and women out there who are not interested in acting on sexual desires outside their commuter relationship.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

You'll find one who wants that too and won't screw up his chance to have it.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[diet_poison]

YANA, though I'm not specifically looking for a relationship atm. I think it depends on who you know, though. I've only dated a couple guys, but I've never been cheated on (afaik, but I have no reason to believe it ever happened with either). I'm a very, very monogamous person, and believe me, there are lots of other people, including men, who want the same thing! You will find them, even if it's frustrating.

Stop looking for it with people who are interested in casual encounters. Focus on dating before sex. Look for someone who isn't primarily interested in sex. Good luck, and I understand that is frustrating.

(My folks have been married for 26 years and they're doing just fine. There is hope! And I want to grow old with someone, too, anon.)

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I have no problems being monogamous and neither does my partner. We've been together almost twenty years. Are you by chance the anon the other day who mentioned not being able to date a guy without him cheating? Therapy is good for that. Identifying the patterns and warning signs in the men who do this and the motivations behind why you choose them would be very, very valuable.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I think age and life experience plays a role. My boyfriend and I have been in a happy monogamous relationship for several years and we're in our late 20s. We've had some long talks about past relationships and feelings. We've both been in relationships where the other person cheated and we've both been that person who was unfaithful. So, we have perspectives on both sides. We've also both admitted to having phases in our lives where we wanted to jump the bones of every attracted person who we encountered. But it's out of our systems now. Now we're thrilled to have found someone we can share our days with and just be happy in each other's company. Which seems to be a hard thing to find, so we can appreciate it a lot more. It's very much a "been there, done that" state of mind. Sex is good and fun, but there needs to be more substance behind it. We can both satisfy each other on a physical and mental level, which is what we were looking for in a partner. So, I'd say don't give up. There are guys (and women) out there who do slow down and want more out of a relationship.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I know what you mean. I have been craving a meaningful, monogamous relationship for a long time now. I had a few casual sex encounters to try and get over some heartache prior to that, and it was fine while it lasted. But now I am ready for the real deal. It makes me feel so lonely though, hearing about all these guys who cheat, lie etc. I want to keep my eyes open though. I'm not totally without hope, but I'm very discouraged at the moment. I feel like I attract scumbags.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I put my cat outside because he was acting like he was going to vomit.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[diet_poison]

Did he?

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think it's wrong to refuse to date/marry/have sex with people of a different race. Obviously it would be totally wrong to refuse to hire someone for a job, or discriminate against them in other ways, because of their race, but dating/sex is different. No one is obligated to date or sleep with someone, so not matter how silly or petty or racist their reason is for not wanting to, I don't think it's wrong.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I've given up.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I want to have casual sex but I'm also being really anal about keeping my first kiss/time ~special~

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I like trolls.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[kallanda_lee]

I hate how my dad having cancer is influencing my mental well-being. And I know it should be about HIM, not me, and how I should be his support, not vice versa, but it's rally wearing me out. Especially the constant not knowing,and it coming back. I'm up to the point where I actively try to repress it from my thinking because I just can't deal. And the weird thing is? We're not even THAT close.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I was finally getting comfortable with identifying as asexual, but then another asexual friend invalidated all of it with a single rant. Now I don't know what I am.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I feel horrifically self conscious about my cellulite. I've been gaining weight steadily despite all attempts to stop it (I'm not pregnant, I have been eating normally and working out, too - I'm 5'4 and can be anywhere from 134-138 lbs, it can vary by day). It's to the point now where I feel embarrassed to go out in public, as it's summer, and I can either wear board shorts and cook, or wear shorter shorts and have the back of my thighs dimple every time I take a step.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I kind of like it when books subvert the "nobody goes to the bathroom" trope, but it's because it's kind of a turn on. Usually when a book goes there, it's trying to be edgy/dark/'realistic' though I have found a few exceptions.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[electromouse]

I made banana bread for the first time and didn't burn down the kitchen! Go me! \o/

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I was in a happy, creative mood earlier and one negative exchange with my mother took it all away. I've been sulking and feeling shitty for the past several hours and I don't know how to pull myself out of it...aside from going to sleep and going through the whole thing again tomorrow. And no, I can't tell my mom how she makes me feel. I don't want to get any more specific than I already have. I just want to cheer up and get some work done tonight.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I honestly don't know if I want to be in a relationship or not.

My brother told me the other day that I'm "getting up there" in age (will be 30 in a few months) and if I don't want to end up a crazy cat lady I better seriously start searching for a husband.

On the one hand it upsets me because what if he's right? But on the other I'm not totally sure I'd mind being the crazy cat lady (or whatever the pet-less equivalent is; I don't have any cats, or other animals for that matter) so I don't know.

I just really don't know what I want and it's frustrating.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I wish I had found this thread sooner! I was feeling pretty crappy today, but reading this page somehow cheered me up a bit.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

The crush I've had on a boy has been a few more years in the making than I want to admit. I think it may have slipped into "love," despite our never having been romantic.

Re: Non Fandom Confession Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I love being home alone. It means I can fart all I want, and not worry about irritated roomies.