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⌈ Secret Post #2754 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Of Heroes and Villains, by Minikisa]

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[Orange is the New Black]

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[Axis Powers Hetalia]

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[Lone Survivor]

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[Yasunori Kato, Doomed Megalopolis]

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[Spartacus and Game of Thrones]

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12. [WARNING for underage sex (and probably dub/noncon too)]

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13. [WARNING for rape]

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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]

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15. [WARNING for child abuse, rape]

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This is a complicated issue that really deserves a complicated answer, but I'm going to simplify it and say no. It's not wrong at all.

I felt this way about my mother for the longest time, and only recent have I finally been able to start accepting her for the flawed person she is. For the flawed people we both are.

And I'm not saying that as a "well, of course you'll feel better about your parents in time" but rather that life and relationships aren't perfect. Parents aren't perfect. Sometimes your relationship with them improves. Sometimes it doesn't.

But in the meantime, it's not wrong to feel... it's not even "resentful" because "resent" implies anger, but that breath of freedom and fresh air and just peace when they're not around. And feeling bad that you feel that way and trying not to feel that way only makes it worse.

So yeah. TL;DR version: It's not wrong to feel that way. Take life one step at a time. Maybe one day the feelings will go away. Maybe they won't. Regardless, don't force yourself to feel one way or another because that's not how feelings work.

Also also, a therapist could be of some help, depending on how much you want to talk (or not talk) about this. It's up to you.

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Re: Is it wrong of me...(tw: abuse)