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I'm really horny but I want to fuck a girl. My partner will probably give me dick later today, but I don't want dick, I want vagina. I got off to thinking about domming and eating a girl out yesterday which is unlike me. Usually guys are present and I'm the one dommed. I'm very much feeling the gay side of bi right now. I think it is cos I am suppressing a crush on an unavailable girl (we are both unavailable, really, and married to men). Ugh. I want to taste vagina.

Most guys can be talked into a threesome. Just saying.

lol not mine. i wish tho.

Have you considered that your relationship with the penis might have run it's course? No shame in admitting you're ready to move on, and it sounds like this particular penis is not suitable for you with it's whole "not letting you explore both sides of your gender identity" thing.

Gender identity?

I think your trolling failed here.

yeah, wtf? i'm bi, not confused about my gender identity.

Sorry. Slip of the type. Meant sexual identity.

Not trolling, but you're right. I meant to say sexual identity.

uh. no. i'm not going to leave my husband just because i've suddenly got a hardcore thirst for vagina. there is more to our relationship than just sex.

Sexual compatibility is a fairly large part of any long term relationship.
If he can't gave you what you need and is too close minded, bigoted or just plain selfish to let you get it elsewhere, then fuck him.
Do what you want, but you have needs and they are important.

It is not close minded, bigoted, or selfish to expect monogamy in (what i'm assuming is) a monogamous relationship.

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(Anonymous) - 2014-07-27 00:11 (UTC) - Expand

Hi Chard.

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chardmonster - 2014-07-27 00:44 (UTC) - Expand

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(Anonymous) - 2014-07-27 04:04 (UTC) - Expand

You know, one of the nasty stereotypes bisexuals have to deal with is "Oh, but if you're bi, doesn't that mean you could never be faithful in a monogamous relationship?"

So, basically the exact same shit you're spouting. Save it.

wow you are going way too far there, anon. I highly doubt OP appreciates you insulting her husband for not doing anything wrong that we can tell.

I read your post like a talking vagina was saying it. With a flappy puppet mouth

...no. That's fucking stupid.

You're basically saying, "partners who are interested in monogamy are selfish bigots," which is complete bullshit. You've also just managed to rationalize the fuck out of cheating.

Sexual compatibility is important, yes, but here's the thing: turn-ons and sex drives change over time. Compatibility has to be actively negotiated in order for a long-term relationship to work. If someone makes a habit of ducking out the second they start encountering obstacles in the bedroom, then every single relationship they have is going to have a guaranteed expiration date. It's basically "I don't want to be in love unless it's PERFECT and super easy all the time" logic.

It's troubling that you've boiled anon's husband entirely down to "selfish penis" - you even refer to him as it

and by troubling I mean gross

you're gross

With the knowledge that you meant "sexual identity," I still give a hearty what the fuck? Being bi doesn't automatically grant one a special exemption in the monogamy department.

it's interesting how similar your dilemma is to one that a named user has been talking about recently on here. except she never goes anon. weird.

anyway, i hope you find some solution to your problem??? idk

who??? i'm curious who you are confusing me with.

stella. it's stella.

not stella, but that's a compliment because i think she's pretty swell.

oh i definitely agree, she's swell. just the situation, and also the way you write, reminded me of things she's said in the past.

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(Anonymous) - 2014-07-27 00:24 (UTC) - Expand

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(Anonymous) - 2014-07-27 04:03 (UTC) - Expand

Well, stella's admitted to trolling when she feels like it, so I'd take her "I never go anon" with a biiiiiiiiig grain of salt.

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