[ SECRET POST #2767 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2767 ⌋

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Comments

Rah

[(Anonymous)]

So one of my oldest friends has just married into old money (his parents bought them a $3 million town house and $2.5million flat in New York as a wedding present).

She genuinely loves this guy and they are so happy and I'm so so happy for her... But. Part of me wants to cry in frustration. Both me and my partner are recovering from long term illnesses and I have no job. We both have debt too.

I hate that I feel this way but I'm super jealous and also downcast.

Re: Rah

[sarillia]

I'd be jealous too.

I hope your recovery goes well and you have better luck with jobs in the future.

Re: Rah

[(Anonymous)]

Dude, I'd be jealous, too. People like to toss around sayings like "Money can't buy happiness", but let's get real here-- money makes it a hell of a lot easier to be happy if you can eliminate worries about job security, bills, healthcare and retirement. Never mind feeding yourself, finding a place to live and raising a family.

Re: Rah

[shortysc22]

I'd be jealous too but happy at the same time for her. I don't blame you for the way you feel and only wish there was more to help you out.

Re: Rah

[(Anonymous)]

I'm so sorry to hear about your debt and I hope you and your partner are doing better now with your health!
But I can understand the jealousy. I would be too! It's normal to feel jealous, but just remember not to try to compare your life to your friend's. It doesn't do well to hang onto the negativity. Just focus on your life, and try to be positive. I know it's hard, because I'm not in a great situation myself, but try to make the most of what you have. Just try to remember that there are a lot of people out there who have it a lot worse and be grateful of what you do have. =)
I know this probably didn't do much, but I do wish you the best, and I really do hope you find a job soon!

Re: Rah

[(Anonymous)]

You have every right to feel that way and you have every right to talk about it. Don't lash out at your friend, obviously, but you can write her one of those letters you don't intend to send, or just vent about it to fs if you want. Maybe someday you'll be able to talk about it with your friend. If this helps, you don't know that things will always be bad for you or good for her. Life goes up and down for everyone. I'd be really jealous too, and angry.

Re: Rah

[diet_poison]

Your friend probably feels weird about it but doesn't know what to say or if she should say anything.

I'd probably feel the same way as you, anon. I hope the job situation looks up for you soon, and that you and your partner are well. *hugs if wanted*