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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-02 03:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2769 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2769 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-08-04 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
I totally agree: the problem is not BDSM by itself, it's writing BDSM fic in a way that tells us that is is intrinsically better than non-kinky sex (whatever that is). <-- don't answer that! :)

The problem is when inexperienced people read such stuff and get an unrealistic view of BDSM: it just increases the likelihood of later abuse. I suspect that if such ignorant nonsense was not spread so widely, there would be less domestic abuse.

A question I'd rather not know the answer to is: how many unhappy couples result from teenagers reading Twilight or Fifty Shades of Gray and applying such stupid ideas to real life? Most teenagers are too smart to confuse fiction with real life, but some are way too naive or so over-protected by their parents they assume dangerous stuff can't happen to them.