[ SECRET POST #2770 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2770 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

[fscom]

07. http://i.imgur.com/NZ6zJMg.jpg

[kallanda_lee]

I sort of want to know what the ship was now.

[(Anonymous)]

Good for you!

This is the optimal use of fandom in real life: helping you actually deal with real life problems! It may not always work, but when it does, it's a clear win with no drawbacks.

Also, I really do not see what would be the benefit of telling him, but I can easily think of several cons including -but not limited to- re-creating your original problems tenfold.

Seriously, no over-sharing if you value your partner!

[(Anonymous)]

This happened for me. It made things better in bed, which led to me feeling comfortable with conversations, and now a few years later we are HAPPIER THAN EVER.

Thanks fandom!

I might try this, actually.

[nyxelestia]

I should probably be saying this anon but fuck it.

It's not exactly problems so much as general lack of spark. Sex with another person is not nearly as satisfying as "sex with myself" so to speak. I might just try this to see if it helps, though.

The problem is my boyfriend is in fandom, too, so he might actually notice. Hmm...

[(Anonymous)]

Make sure you don't accidentally call your partner by the name of the character you're thinking of. I've done this. It wasn't pretty.

[(Anonymous)]

Been doing this for years, with both fandom ships and characters from my own original stuff. A while ago I told my husband about it, and far from being skeeved out he was quite intrigued. He says he'd be open to participating in it, sort of low-key role-playing, but the idea makes me too uncomfortable. He's a theater guy from way back and I don't know if I'd be willing to let him decide how far to take the characterization. One day, maybe.

Which is to say: rock on if it works for you, and don't be afraid to 'fess up eventually. You never know.

[(Anonymous)]

If he ever gets too far ahead of me, this really works to catch me up.