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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-03 03:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #2770 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2770 ⌋

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philstar22: (Kahlan)

[personal profile] philstar22 2014-08-03 08:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, it depends. I wouldn't use the word "underage," but I do get creeped out by someone under 20 or so paired with someone considerably older. There are almost always power abuse issues involved or at least implicated, there is a wide difference in life experience, and it creeps me out. Someone under 20 still feels young enough that it almost always feels like the older person is taking advantage at least a little.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-03 08:33 pm (UTC)(link)
But that would also apply to someone whose 18 or 19, and yet they'd not be considered "underage".

It's not the dynamic that confuse me, just the labeling as "underage".
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[personal profile] philstar22 2014-08-03 08:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, yes, then I agree. That is not the appropriate label.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-04 06:57 am (UTC)(link)
A big enough age gap creeps me out more now than it used to. I've seen a couple good friends get seriously used and shafted in relationships like that over the years. I've grown wary.