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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-09 03:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #2776 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2776 ⌋

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Re: I feel bad for the guy you're with...

(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 08:13 am (UTC)(link)
I know being a woman doesn't make me exempt from misogyny but fuck it, women who like getting beaten are fucked up. Also, anecdotal evidence, but it doesn't help that most of the ones I know who get off to that are extremely damaged or have daddy/confidence issues.

Re: I feel bad for the guy you're with...

(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 08:16 am (UTC)(link)
Getting lightly slapped is not getting beaten. Surely you know there are degrees to pain and violence? Why do you immediately assume the worst?

Re: I feel bad for the guy you're with...

(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 08:22 am (UTC)(link)
Both are horrible to me. I know YKINMK and all that, but I will never understand people (especially women) who get off to any kind of violence inflicted on themselves or rape. And I'm aware some kinks are inexplicable, but a lot of them are rooted in deeper psychological issues.

Re: I feel bad for the guy you're with...

(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 08:24 am (UTC)(link)
The latest Journals of Sex Research prove you wrong, though.

Re: I feel bad for the guy you're with...

(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 08:32 am (UTC)(link)
I still can't help but be swayed more by personal experience than statistics, but have any links to these? Genuinely curious.

Re: I feel bad for the guy you're with...

(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 08:36 am (UTC)(link)
When someone says "genuinely curious" they never mean it.

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/25/magazine/25desire-t.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0

Re: I feel bad for the guy you're with...

(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 08:41 am (UTC)(link)
I'm aware of that, but I honestly meant it. Thanks for the link.