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fandomsecrets2014-08-09 03:52 pm
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(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 10:54 am (UTC)(link)Snarky comments aside, the word "abuse" still gets misconstrued by men and the general public though because sjws and radfems call "abuse" what goes on in 50 shades of Grey and other such women-oriented romance, even though it's the fantasy of an adult woman who never puts her heroine through ****actual**** suffering or danger.
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(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 11:10 am (UTC)(link)I haven't read 50 Shades, but it seems pretty abusive from what I can tell. It romanticizes a relationship in which the main character constantly tells her lover to stop while he goes ahead and does it anyway. That's not a proper BDSM relationship, yet the general public thinks otherwise due to the popularity of the series.
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(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 11:18 am (UTC)(link)5SOG doesn't present itself as a manual to BDSM and the general public is wrong to take it that way.
Weren't you the one who spoke earlier about rape fantasies? Women's rape fantasies center around the idea of a man they want not stopping when they say "no" because thy don't really want him to stop anyway. There's been many an article on this and calling them "rape" fantasies is entirely misleading. 5SOG is a book about that, and women have a right to those desires especially since quite often it's what best gets them off.
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(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2014-08-10 07:59 pm (UTC)(link)>somehow that makes them an MRA
I don't understand this logic.