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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-12 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2779 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2779 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-08-13 02:55 pm (UTC)(link)
That makes sense. I, too, have jumped fairly quickly from being just friends with someone to being romantically involved and having sex, but we had become pretty close friends before that point and it had also become obvious to me that he was attracted to me, so there was definitely an emotional progression, it just took someone to make a move and then things happened quickly. I know a couple who were friends for ages and when they started dating, they went from there to engaged to married really fast and have been married for years now. When you're already good friends, you get to skip over the "getting to know you" stage of dating, so it's not at all unreasonable that the official friends-to-lovers transition happens quickly, but it's true that there had to be some emotional groundwork laid during the platonic stage. I have plenty of friends I would never want to date and I'm sure not all of them would want to date me either, so there's more to it than just being friends and then randomly deciding to start banging out of the blue.