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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-14 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2781 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2781 ⌋

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[Kevin Sorbo/Hercules: The Legendary Journeys]


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Re: Does this count as Asexuality?

(Anonymous) 2014-08-15 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
Only you can decide what you are--however, Asexuality is just the lack of sexual attraction to either gender(s). Like a hard zero on the sexuality scale. Now, masturbating doesn't mean you aren't Ace. A lot of ace do, myself included. It's just...not connected to anyone in particular. It's...like I get the urge to be penetrated, but the person isn't attached, if that makes sense? People don't turn me on, but sometimes I'll just get a strong urge to be penetrated. Sort of like that. I've never been attracted to anyone sexually, and I'm in my mid-late twenties.

Re: Does this count as Asexuality?

(Anonymous) 2014-08-15 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
That sounds a lot like me, actually. I have a very strong urge to be dominated in certain ways, but don't care all that much about who would be doing it. I've even had the occasional urge for penetration without much thought as to who or what would do the penetrating (very rare, though, as more attempts than not have gone badly due to vaginal problems).

I guess my problem boils down to attraction? Everyone seems to agree that aces can find people attractive, but aren't actually attracted to people themselves. I'm not sure where on that spectrum/line/whatisiteven I fall on.

Re: Does this count as Asexuality?

(Anonymous) 2014-08-15 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a virgin, actually, since I have zero interest in actually having sex. I have heard some Aces say that. I haven't ever found anyone attractive, though. Faces/bodies are just faces and bodies to me.

I'd say you do sound Asexual to me, but only you can decide that!