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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-14 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2781 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2781 ⌋

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[Kevin Sorbo/Hercules: The Legendary Journeys]


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Re: Does this count as Asexuality?

(Anonymous) 2014-08-15 04:38 am (UTC)(link)
Hm, well... just speaking personally, as someone who identifies as asexual, this sounds like me. I kind of dread my period, because I get really horny right before it and it's such a pain. The only thing that helps is lots of solo porn, where I don't even care who the character is because I'm not really attracted to them, just the idea of the kink itself and me trying to experience it and get it over with so the feeling will go away. It's not to say I don't enjoy it, but... I really feel no attachment to it either. It's like I just really have to get the stupid itch scratched, but I never get that way around actual people.

I wouldn't beat yourself up over it. Asexuality is pretty complicated and a personal thing, so if you feel like you fall into the definition of it, don't feel like you should have to like having sex unless that's something you want. (in which case maybe a doctor can help with your hormones or something, idk. I'm personally just fine with how I am.)