[ SECRET POST #2783 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2783 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Uh sorry, what? "Don't actually believe in good mother&daughter relationships"? Don't you know anyone IRL who has a good relationship with their mother? Or do you think those people are all just pretending?

[(Anonymous)]

Nah, I get what dreemyweird means. With something as fundamental as your relationship with your family members, bad experiences can really skew your view. Like, logically you can see that these things exist, but you have absolutely no frame of reference for it, deep down.

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ooooohhhhh I get it. Like, you look at something and know that people genuinely feel that way, but you're like "okay, sorry, IDGI"? Yeah, that makes sense. I must have misinterpreted, sorry.

[dreemyweird]

Tbf, my wording was misleading! But yes, the previous anon got it right — I meant the lack of emotional understanding, not the lack of rational belief in the existence of good parents of whatever gender.

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DA

Yeah, there's a level of not believing in it emotionally. Also, I was pretty isolated as a kid, mostly saw my friends in school, didn't have a lot of chance to see other parenting styles in action, and pretending everything was always lovely because it was expected of me. So I grew up expecting very little in the way of emotional support from my parents, and also that people lied about relationships. When I heard people talk about unconditional love and their mom being their best friend and so on, I actually *did* think they were lying, because in my experience you were expected to pretend things were peachy because no one wanted to hear differently. (And my parents weren't even abusive, just kind of not interested in me.)