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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-18 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2785 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2785 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Tenth Kingdom]


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(Orange is the New Black)


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[Dresden Files author Jim Butcher, Shannon Butcher]


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[Panic! at the Disco. Brendon Urie]


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[BBC Robin Hood]


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[Chasing Life]


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[Rooster Teeth]


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[Hawkeye 2012]


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10.
[Legend of Korra]


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[QI]









Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: Possible tw: unwanted touching, panic attacks

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-08-19 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
I have a strong aversion to touch from most people (i.e. people who aren't close friends, immediate family, or an SO) in most situations, but I don't go flat-out panic like you do*, and I also have never had any kind of history with physical or sexual abuse - I'm just like that. I don't know why.

I've never thought of cops that way, but I don't think that would bother me as much if it's because they're doing their job as it would with people who are doing it unnecessarily. hm :|a

Anyway, I hope you are able to not give too much anxious thought to this because dwelling on it can't help. It's also highly unlikely to ever happen.

*it has never happened, though I guess I can't say that it never will, if someone doesn't push it too far. It seems more likely that I'd just snap and get really hostile and revert to basic defense instincts, but...maybe that's sort of the same thing? I do get a quick flash of "NOPE" and usually give a rude retort (not premeditated or intentional) when someone touches me out of context. It makes me really uncomfortable and I can still "feel" the touch minutes later.